Here is How to overcome fear, and anxiety when trying to sell your products online in the twenty first century. so i want to share with you how to overcome those and also shyness, laziness and sadness because if your a super introvert person who is not willing to become extrovert, life will be stressful and so to solve that we are going to discuss this a bit more how to do that in today's article.
How To Overcome Fear And Anxiety
Hey everyone, what’s going on it’s Shaqir Husseyin here, I’m in the four seasons right now and I’m just doing a quick client deal and helping my clients market their products which is, they’re in the oil business, they’ve got black seed oil and they want to reach more customers with this product and one of the things I’m telling them is in this day and age you have to become extroverted even if you are introverted you have to become extroverted because we live in an extroverted world.
If people don't see you, they don't like you, they don't trust you they don't see what you look like, they aren’t going to buy from you. And if you have insecurities, now is the time to put it under the table and the way you do that is one, you tell yourself I’ve got 5 seconds to make a decision, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1, boom. Just like this now, i was thinking to myself, i want to do this podcast but what are you guys going to think because you’re going to give me a bunch of money for my services and I’m like i don't care, I’m going to pull out my phone and record this.
How To Overcome Fear Of Failure
It’s going to be a PODCAST it's probably going to be listened to maybe thousands of people, maybe one person i don't care, I’m going to go and do it, you see how i just instantly overcome any insecurity over any fear because you just do it. And the more that you do it, it's like a muscle you’re training yourself, it doesn’t matter what you look like.
Let me back this up with a story back in 2009 i got started in internet marking, now i was big, fat, morbidly obese and i told all my friends and family, I’m dropping out of university and instead of being an investment banker and
I’m going to become an internet marketer and everyone laughed at me and everyone thought i was crazy. Then i said no, i meet these young people and they’re all millionaires. I want to be like these guys. I want to travel round the world.
And then i go online and I’m so excited and I’m so pumped and I’m so motivated and then boom, I’m thinking to myself…I’m fat…my name is Shaqir Hussyin, its a Muslim name I’m broke, who wants to do business with this guy? I wouldn’t want to do business with this guy.
And then i go to America and one of the guys in front of everyone he says, “what’s your name?” And i said “Shaqir Hussyin” and he looks at me and he goes “hahaha like Saddam Hussein” and i thought “oh my god I’m in trouble,
what do i do?”
And did that stop me? No!
How To Overcome Fear In Life And Succeed
I went out and I made six figures, multiple six figures, i made a million i was 23, 24 years old. By the time i was 26 i made over 10 million dollars, I was still living with my parents, you know?
And in the last few years I’ve done over 30 million dollars in sales, i’ve traveled over 50-60 whatever countries, got married to my best friend and when i look back, guess what, if i had insecurities, i would not have this.
You understand?
I would not have hundreds of clients paying me forty thousand dollars a year for my coaching programs or I wouldn’t be able to come to fancy orders, if i was still stuck in that mindset, stuck with fear, stuck with paralysis, so whatever fears you, write it down. I’m afraid to make videos…write it down.
How To Embrace Fear
I’m afraid to talk to people…write it down. I’m afraid to make ten calls today…I’m afraid to do all of this and then look at it…be okay with the fear and then realize you’re going to die anyway. If you don’t do it, someone else is going to do it. If you don't do it, someone else is going to do it and beat you.
And if you don't take advantage of the opportunity now, then when are you going to do it? If not you, then who? If you’re not going to step up and take your product and services and you’re going to go market it, then someone is going to come in.
And imagine the pain in 5 years time when you say “oh i had that idea” “oh i had that product” “I was going to take it round the world.” No. Because of your fears, you hold yourself back, you hold your family back, you hold your customers back, you hold your vendors…everyone back because of your own insecurities.
So if you feel that, if you face that, be okay, write it down and then say okay what’s next? And what's next is one thing, taking massive action creates momentum. And when you get into that state it's almost like you’re unstoppable, nothing can stop you.
Because this world is fake anyway, this whole world….what…you know, we’re not taking anything when we die. So you ask is…and what happens is you become unstoppable, you get confidence, you have confidence now people are attracted to you. People are attracted to you because of confidence.
You walk around with a big smile, when you talk to someone you know what you’re doing because you’ve got more grit, you’ve got more traction, you’ve put in the sweat equity that no one…you’ve got unique life experience no one can match. And everyone is different and guess what’s sexy in the marketplace? Get what gets you money? When you’re unique.
If you’re the same as everyone else, no one cares. If you have a personal story, you’re unique. I will never be able to match your story. You will never be able to match my story. And that’s what makes us, gives us our X factor.
And using your X factor, you go out into the marketplace and you stand for something, you stand for your product and service and then you go out and you go out and you build your brand. Whew, that was good five minutes of powerful wisdom.
Did you guys enjoy that?
Conclusion And How To Stop Living In Fear
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I do one of these every single day like clockwork whether i like you or not, i still do it.
Whether I’m in a hotel, whether I’m in an Uber, whether I’m in a client meeting, i will do it so make sure you subscribe, listen to it and i’ll see you tomorrow.
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About The Author
Your Millionaire Mentor
Shaqir Hussyin
Shaqir Hussyin is the founder and CEO of WealthAcademy.com & Funnels.com. Nicknamed the “Backpack Millionaire”, he’s invested $350,000 into his own education and training. Whilst traveling to 100+ countries, Shaqir has built over 10+ million dollar brands and attracted over 500,000+ subscribers.
His signature program is now available:Max Income System; 14 Simple Steps To Making Your First First Income Online
Shaqir is a highly sought-after speaker and direct response “Sales Funnels” global leader. Shaqir’s work has impacted over 100,000 businesses in 65 different countries. Connect with Shaqir on Instagram, YouTube, LinkedIn & FB Group.